Why Pornography is evil – Aftermath post
Posted on | May 12, 2009 | 8 Comments |
It’s good to see that my post generated at least a little stir amongst my readers, both regular and troll. As some of the points I made seem to have been taken the wrong way, I thought that I would post a little clarifier for the benefit of those who may have been offended by anything I wrote.
First of all, point 12 – it was meant as a little light hearted poke at partners flummoxed by their hubby’s insistence on trying love the Greek way. I am entirely aware that (1) Not all men are obsessed with anal sex and (2) Enjoyment of anal sex is not mandatory to maintaining a loving relationship. The point being that men – perverts as we are will have come across the idea, being pornswogglers or not (its in virtually every men’s magazine anyway) but I don’t know of many men who reject partners on this basis! (well, maybe the gay ones). Number one point to take home – Anal freaks should stick together. Me included ^^
Second, the point about women in pornography being exploited or not – I am fully aware that there is a shadier side of pornography where women are forced into doing acts which they would never dream of doing consensually – probably fuelled by drug cravings or debts paid to human traffickers and pimps. However, these posts were meant to highlight the good things about pornography and in a couple of points I separated out “bad” (illegal) porn from the rest. Some pornography is criminal and should be punished as such, but the women participating in the rest – to the best of my knowledge enjoy what they do and flaunting their femininity for all to see. If you think about it – aren’t the men who pay for DVDs of these women who are getting a good wage the ones being exploited? And willingly?
Alexeon: Good comeback! I appreciate the support!
Jaden: It is a sad but true fact that women are being abused in virtually every area of the workplace, though we(?) do live in a part of the world where people are striving to make this not the case and the British porn industry for one – although not as extensive as the American one is definitely one where both actors and actresses are respected. Also, many actresses go on to become directors and make films that are more to their way of thinking (though actually, they usually end up pretty much like the ones directed by men but with less gangbang.) And for the record, I do have some clothing made by Vietnamese peasants. I mean, if we didn’t buy it then they wouldn’t be able to feed their children – it all depends on which side of the moral double-edged sword you choose to fall upon…
Caitlin: Sorry if I offended you, I think I covered your point above. Thanks for naming some of the actresses as well, it was most informative. It’s always good to get womens’ opinions on this blog as I’ve always taken my readership as a primarily male base. I think I agree with your point that it is the more freaky types that fail to hold down relationships – not because they are incapable, of course. Perhaps there is a factor that freakiness comes with a greater sex drive and therefore a greater number of shallower relationships rather than the ordinary person just out searching for her bishonen prince on his stereotypical white horse. Oh, and Bella really pisses me off in Twilight. Bring on the Alice x Bella Vamprape fanfiction ^^
Anonymous: Yes I was. I guess it wasn’t as funny as I thought.
Akakori: Wow, that was quite a comment – you should write for my site! I think you’ve highlighted one of the points I made with your gay porn example – that being thought of as a sexual object in some contexts is empowering to one’s confidence (even if the advances are unwanted) – only if this being thought of as a sexual object doesn’t spill over into cornering and raping that individual against his or her will of course. As you said – this is due to the multiply-quoted separating line between pornography/fantasy and real life. Del-Monte Kami-sama gave us a reality chip in our frontal lobes for a reason so we might as well use it. It would probably be better for people to acknowledge pornography and the way women are treated in this world and start their crusade from there rather than try to eradicate this rather in-built and not entirely harmful way of thinking. I especially liked your point 9/10 – We should be campaigning to increase the quality of our porn! By next year I expect there will now be a burgeoning industry in 100% Free range, organic, Fairtraded and woodland reared pornography…
Thanks everyone for your comments…I always enjoy reading them – even the trolling ones!
Yuri
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May 12th, 2009 @ 2:38 pm
I wasn’t trying condemn anyone of being morally inferior since the fact is few of us morally superior at all, myself included. I will spare everyone a long rant since no one wants that. It just gets my ire up when someone makes a moral stance that tries to portray something rather benign as the bane of humanity when there are truly horrible atrocities out there. I’ll stop there since I would hate to be known as the depressing pervert.
Also I think a point that needs to be touched on is the fact that most women in porn would be objectified anyway, so if your comfortable with it why not turn it to your advantage. Which as people said attacking porn is pointless, it will do nothing since does nothing about the people who like the porn.
As for the infamous number 12, I just love the picture brings a smile to my face every time. Also I think we can all agree that in regard to problem purposed by 12 we just need three things: an open mind, permission, and maybe some lube (non-petroleum by the way we have to think about the environment.) Remember when you go brown think green .
May 12th, 2009 @ 4:13 pm
Wow, I’m pretty chuffed that you read and even responded to my comment :D Cheers Yuribou!
Also Alice molesting Bella? I would pay to see that. (Also it’s totally there in the subtext anyway.) Bella would finally realise the patriarchal oppression of her beloved Mormon cock and embrace the sins of homosexuality and emancipation. I think someone should write this.
Finally, re: anal sex. Just to push the point home (hahaha). I agree with you there that more women should actually try it. IMHO it’s the ultimate litmus test for relationships. It’s a lot riskier in many ways than regular intercourse. If he still loves you and can laugh about it with you after you accidently get poop on him, you know he’s a keeper.
May 13th, 2009 @ 2:51 am
For jokes like that, you can get away with it if you add in some self depreciation.
May 13th, 2009 @ 4:44 pm
Duly noted. Shall try that next time.
May 14th, 2009 @ 12:46 pm
I’m impressed that you understood the idea behind my ramblings! I think you got the jist of it pretty well.
Most people are able to separate fantasy from reality and can keep the two as different worlds. The problem is those men who are unable to, and if this is the case pornography isn’t the cause, but it can be a vehicle, unfortunately. But that doesn’t mean its evil and should be banned for everyone.
And so, instead of blindly deciding that porn is evil/should be banned, a better approach would be to improve the condition of it.
And I thought your No12 was amusing, but then I am a guy and I have a similar sense of humour, so what can I do… Caitlin’s litmus test is the perfect – it should be used by marriage councillors imo.
And (another and) if I do get cornered and raped by gay guy’s… well, I guess I’ll let you know…
May 14th, 2009 @ 4:06 pm
Wow, I was mentioned in the post! Im practically famous now!
I always enjoy reading the posts and comments on this blog. :D
May 26th, 2009 @ 4:39 am
“First off, a really interesting read – actually most of your posts are.
To me, this argument whether pornography is ‘evil’ can only be judged on the individual’s actions much like how alcholic beverages are a tradition to many cultures yet can be abused, resulting in riskful behaviors. It is no so much as pornography but the lack of discipline and restraint of the individuals – especially in America. According to many scientific studies, human males are instinctively seeking for potential mates to repopulate. This high sexual drive makes sense when you compare ancient man’s survival and death rate to other creatures. So, pornography being ‘improper’ can simply be explained due to ancient man’s necessity. As for it being ‘evil’, is it not better to let men use pornography (which in view is in no way a catalyst) as an outlet for their sexual drives instead of letting them rape women. Most of male teenagers – if not all – have a high sexual drive and has seen some type of pornography in a fair basis, yet do not go out in the streets a start having sex. But, I suppose these are all just my views.
Looking forward to more posts! By the way, my favorite has always been the Fetish Monthly’s.” ^^
May 28th, 2009 @ 5:12 pm
For jokes like that, you can get away with it if you add in some self depreciation.